How To Be Happy

In finding happiness we must understand that it’s not a feeling to be awaited. Happiness is definitely within our control. Although sometimes we ourselves sabotage the ways to finding happiness. We pursue these images of perfection in any symbol like a Ferrari F50, !00 foot yacht, a supermodel girlfriend and all that hype the media is selling us. Well you might think these things will make you happy but probably won’t.

Just ponder on the downside of owning these tangible artifacts of perfection. You will shell out tens of thousands of dollars in luxury tax, annual insurance, maintenance, storage plus expenses for super premium fuel only. And how about half the male populace hitting on your gorgeous girlfriend? Can you sleep with your one eye open for the rest of the time you have a relationship with a supermodel? Can you go the distance of having a relationship whose 100 percent all about her 24/7?

Happy people usually nurture habits that make them the way they are. Acquire these habits in order to learn how to be happy.

They have the habit of gratitude. They count their blessing and reflect on the positive aspect on their lives.

They have more pursuits and passions for sports , music, art etc. The more passions and pursuits they have the ore happiness you feel.

Learning how to be happy and feeling happiness are an obligation we should do for ourselves. No one will do it for you.

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